As most of you know, our family was not at COC this weekend because we were with our daughter, Haley, at the 14 and under State Fast Pitch Softball Tournament in Abilene, TX. Haley has had so much fun this year playing softball and we took time to make it a big family weekend. The girls did great winning 3 of 5 games but those two loses knocked us out of the tournament. All said and done, they were the 6th place finisher out of 25 teams who qualified for the event. We were so proud of all the girls and of course our girl, Haley. The girls on the team call her Pippy because during the games she wears her hair in two pony tails and they are braided. She is so cute but turns into a get dirty, tough girl when she hits the field. It was awesome!
One thing Sarah and I observed this weekend is the highs and lows of victories and defeats. What a different atmosphere and attitude we experienced with the victories in comparison to the defeats. I remember when I was a kid feeling the same way when we would win and then also when we would lose.
Life is much the same. We will have daily victories and daily defeats. It is how we approach them that will make the difference. Our attitudes, outlook, and faith will play a major part in how we handle these situations. Yes, life stinks sometimes but it is during those valley times that God is preparing us for the next mountain top victory.
As we consoled a crying 13 year old Sunday after the big loss we reminded her that she still has one more year of 14 and under softball. A lot of the girls on her team will now move into high school ball as they will become Freshman in just a couple of months while Haley will now move into 8th grade. She gets another shot at this State deal!
God is the same. He is a God of second, third, and fourth chances. The Bible says His mercies are new every morning. That means every day when I wake up I get to choose what I will make of that day and yesterdays defeats are gone. No one likes to lose at anything but sometimes the losses are preparing us for the victories.
Have a great week and look for the lesson or blessing in the trials and storms!